Fathers, A Reaffirmation

To All: A simple wish and hope that those who are already fathers are able to hear from your children, and those who are aspiring to be future dads will be compelled by the awesome responsibilities as well as privileges that come with this role(s). When I entered the field of psychology, the first book I purchased (not Online yet, as it was about forty years ago) was Michael Lamb's summary of research on fathers and their roles, historically, cross culturally, sociologically, and psychologically -- "The Role of the Father in Child Development" (first edition 1976). He served as the editor for several leading researchers and the book has evolved through five editions, with titles of chapters reflecting the different times in which we live, highlighting cultural and role changes. But what remains constant throughout the five editions is the emphasis on why and how fathers matter to their children and families. Assuming the attention span of the men (and women, who are also invited in here) approximates mine and you are otherwise busy pursuing your passion or even trying to conger up a 'bad dad' joke, I will simply suggest you reflect on the two underlined words and you will reach your own conclusions, you will reaffirm the influence of your own father (whether present or absent), as well as remind you of yours. In another book I read more recently, "The Road to Character" (2015), which I found provocative after thinking I already knew everything about character and personality development, David Brooks places no small emphasis of the role of parents, fathers in particular. 

Spoiler Alert: Our role(s) remain critical; we are privileged indeed. Happy Father's Day!